Don’t close the door

Are you getting weary looking and waiting for the “One”? Last year you went full throttle searching for Mr/Ms. “Right” But all the effort went down the drain, and the ones that seemed had potential didn’t work out either. You’re tired of making new acquaintances; entertaining potential suitors (even stalkers), fed up of ‘getting to know you” stages that gets stuck there and never can seem to move onto the next level. Are you just about to give up?

Well, don’t, just take a break but still be open to possibilities. It’s only the beginning of the year and who knows, the one you’ve been waiting for might be arriving in a few weeks. Just relax and maybe focus on other things.

Maybe stop looking for someone to pursue for a while (for the guys) or enjoy not being chased for once (for the girls), just have friends and love their company.

Sometimes it’s when we’re not so eager that it happens (a relationship) because we’re not so stressed about it; we’re not over analyzing and fearing because we’re not expecting anything, just enjoying the ride.

If you’re pursuing a dream, don’t stop, keep working on it. When THE big break comes, you’ll be ready and alert to grab it.

I’d still say this: don’t rush, don’t give up, don’t close the door.

Further readings:

Never been in a relationship, what have I been missing?

Dealing with painful rejection

When we’re not looking

"Jesus Christ loves you and died for you."