The "O" (Other) Factors
(for women)
Aside from a great and healthy body with all the curves in the right places and size, you smell like you shower ten times a day and your skin is velvety soft, here are a few more we can add to or improve (or substitute for the lack of a great body, right curve or size) in ourselves to not just look sexy but also feel sexy.
Spirituality – Believe me, a Godly, virtues woman with a beautiful soul is very attractive. It’s something not physically visible but manifests through our lives, our views, through the way we talk and interact with others. It shines through from inside.
Confidence – I always say that we, women should find our confidence in God, knowing we’re loved unconditionally by our creator regardless of size or skin color. Taking that to heart alone should give us confidence. Be confident in ‘WHO WE ARE’ NOT in what we look like (because beauty fades) or what we have (and wealth isn’t stable).
If we think we have an attitude problem or has issues (we all have that) then let’s work on it.
Intelligence – An intellectual woman is sexy. I mean, at least be able to contribute something to the conversation at hand. Keep updated on things, read, never stop learning.
Make wise decisions in life and love. An equally intelligent guy won’t feel threatened or insecure towards a woman like that but would rather be appreciative of and be challenged by it.
Humility – Lastly, nothing like a girl who knows her worth, is beautiful, talented and kind hearted but remains humble, not looking down on others or feels and acts like she’s above all. Her feet are firmly planted on the ground.
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