Is someone obsessed with you?

A plea to the men….

If any of us have fallen for you, and you know it, even if we haven’t reached the point of obsessing over you yet BUT have gone beyond just admiration, stepped over boundaries though obviously YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED…sit us down and tell us the blunt truth.

It’s heartless to keep us hanging on to any bit of hope if there isn’t any at all (And at times, we would if we’re that lost). I know we shouldn’t have if you haven’t made any move but you see, we won’t see that, our infatuation (infatuation not love because love takes two) over you is blinding us! Avoiding won’t help. We will find justification why you can’t talk on the phone, why you have to run errands for your neighbor on weekends (goodness!) just so you can’t hang out with us, why you don’t answer our text messages.

Sad to say, some of us never get it until it’s spoken. As long as you don’t say anything, there is hope. Don’t be a jerk and just enjoy all the attention and fuss we give you when you can’t return it, that’s SO SELFISH! Don’t worry we’ll get hurt, it already hurts and it will hurt more if prolonged. The sooner you set us free, the sooner we can move on. Break the truth gently but clearly, putting out the fire of hope.

Remember guys, unlike you, we can’t court and ask the object of our affection if we have a chance. We just hope, we just silently pledge our hearts (which is really not good). So don’t play it. If you have to hurt us, hurt us with the truth.

Same plea to the women.