You, me and my friend (love triangle) II
You’re falling for your friend’s man…
What are you doing? There are gazillions of fishes in the ocean, why would you want to catch the same trout?
You’ll not only be hurting your friend but yourself even. The fact the guy isn’t with you means, he prefers your friend. I know and have said it many times over that at times we can’t choose whom we fall for, we just do, this still doesn’t justify stealing your friend’s boyfriend, husband (this is way unforgivable!) or person of affection.
Let’s say you get him, just think, what peace would you have if you know what you’ve got is stolen good? And you had to hurt a person close to you to get it?
Once you start feeling something for your friend’s man, it’s time to stay away. DISTANCE is the key. We, women, bond by hanging out and talking with a lot, so the less you spend time or see your friend’s object of affection, the less likely your feeling will progress. It will only happen if we let it.
Now, if the guy isn’t your friend’s boyfriend yet, only somebody she met and likes, and given he isn’t courting her, then compete for him if you can and want to BUT if she saw him first and He showed interest in your friend, then girl, move on. Save yourself from getting hurt and your self-respect.
To be continued…
Further Readings:
Dangerous Assumption
What are you doing? There are gazillions of fishes in the ocean, why would you want to catch the same trout?
You’ll not only be hurting your friend but yourself even. The fact the guy isn’t with you means, he prefers your friend. I know and have said it many times over that at times we can’t choose whom we fall for, we just do, this still doesn’t justify stealing your friend’s boyfriend, husband (this is way unforgivable!) or person of affection.
Let’s say you get him, just think, what peace would you have if you know what you’ve got is stolen good? And you had to hurt a person close to you to get it?
Once you start feeling something for your friend’s man, it’s time to stay away. DISTANCE is the key. We, women, bond by hanging out and talking with a lot, so the less you spend time or see your friend’s object of affection, the less likely your feeling will progress. It will only happen if we let it.
Now, if the guy isn’t your friend’s boyfriend yet, only somebody she met and likes, and given he isn’t courting her, then compete for him if you can and want to BUT if she saw him first and He showed interest in your friend, then girl, move on. Save yourself from getting hurt and your self-respect.
To be continued…
Further Readings:
Dangerous Assumption
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