she's not into you...
Although women, unlike men, are complicated, it’s simple when it comes to this. If a girl is not into you she’ll tell you right from the start.
If she said ‘No or not interested” at the beginning but took it back – that’s fishy. A nice, decent, Godly woman won’t lead you on or make you chase just for the adventure of it or give you mix signals intentionally. That sounds like she’s playing or being immature. Not a good sign.
But what if she’s just nice and doesn’t want to hurt your feelings by burning you? Well, here are some signs that will confirm her disinterest:
- She doesn’t return your text or calls. No matter how busy a girl is, she’ll make time for the guy she likes. If she’s confident enough, she’ll even ask for his number if she doesn’t have it yet just to make sure communication is open.
- She doesn’t ask or show interest in what you do. We women are by nature supportive. When we like a guy we want to know what he does, his cause, what he likes and we’d love to contribute any to help or show support.
- She makes excuses to not spend time with you (same with men). If she can’t find time to talk, hang out, or do anything together and her favorite reply to your invitations is “Next time, ok?”, she’s definitely not into you.
But what if she’s a friend and returns your calls, shows interest in what you do, hang out with you, does this mean she’s into you? Well, just one way to find out. If you like someone and want to have more than friendship, tell her and ask if she likes you back, hard but the safest and guaranteed way to know.
Trust me; it might be difficult at times to know if a woman is interested in you but it doesn’t take that much to know if she isn’t.
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