7 Losers you don't want

1. Abusers – Abusers are very insecure people and uses physical and verbal, mental abuse to incur fear and dominance to control. Often it’s their way of keeping the abused. If we’re with someone like this, eventually (unaware), we’d start feeling and thinking we’re only getting what we deserve: abuse. We definitely don’t want to be with someone who always make us feel less, inadequate or worth nothing.

2. Cheaters- Only God can truly change an infidel. An unfaithful person will never be contented with dating just one at a time. And we shouldn’t even entertain the thought we can change them, we’re not God.

3. Liars – Can we ever trust one? Do we want to spend the rest of our lives worrying our partner isn’t being truthful all the time?

4. Users – They keep us for sex, money or whatever else they can suck from us. Users only keep their prey as long as they get something from them.

5. Players – Their falsehood rides on flowery words and faked chivalry (men), playfulness, flirting and seduction (women). Players are the cousins of cheaters. They’re hard to spot but once you’re getting serious with the relationship, they scoot.

6. Thug, jerk, goon – To want a ‘bad boy’ for a husband or even just a boyfriend is beyond me. I don’t find, threatening, bullying and getting into all sorts of trouble and fights attractive at all.

I mean, what’s cool about drunks, addicts and gang fights? When were rudeness, disrespectfulness and lack of ambition ever cute?

7. Vain – Ah, the lost souls who think they’re God’s gift to mankind, they’re the center of the galaxy and anyone with them should feel like they won the lottery. Oh may they come down from the pedestals. They’ll definitely dent the floor when they fall from there.

You want to be in a relationship where you’re as equally important as your other half, not the great PA (Personal Assistant)!

Let’s not be a loser by being with one. And in choosing the right one, always remember to consult GOD, GO by Biblical standard and PRAY.

Proverbs 3:5,6 - Trust in the LORD with all your heart; and lean not to your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct your paths.