Rebounding?

How many times does one have to be broken hearted to realize that rebound relationships don’t fix them? By getting into these short-term, rushed, insincere affairs, you’re just accumulating more emotional baggage for yourself. By jumping into a new relationship without healing from the previous one, you just wreck whatever else is left of your heart.

Getting back at the ex by getting another future ex is stupid. There’s more to life than relationships and you’re missing it because all your energy is focused on romance, on getting into whirlwind relationships in the hope to be in a good one to prove you’re worth it. YOU ARE WORTH IT and deserves a long lasting one but you forfeit it when you keep rebounding the wrong way.

The best way to bounce back is to allow your self time to grieve, then to heal, then to be improved. Find other things that make you feel good about yourself (adopt a hobby, get into sports, get a pet). Don’t fear being single and unattached. It’s not an underachievement. Neither does it scream unattractiveness. Many are single and unattached by choice because they know THEY’RE WORTH IT and won’t settle for less again so they wait (this time) for the one that will last a lifetime.

“Delight yourself in the Lord and HE will give you the desires of your heart (given they’re the Lord’s will for you, for your own good) – Psalms 37:4”