Dangerous Assumptions (Part IV)
- You like each other, you’re together, it’s official (BUT HE”S MARRIED!!!). I thought a few times if I was going to write about this, the thought of considering a person already married to someone else for a future partner is beyond reasonable thinking, BUT sadly, some women just can’t think reasonably.
How can you trust a man (or woman) claiming to have fallen for you while he is cheating on his wife at the same time? After he brought her to the altar and vowed to love her for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, till death do them part, he betrays her while she’s still alive, obviously, one whose words can’t be relied on.
Don’t fall for the immortal lie “I don’t love her anymore” or “We haven’t been together for a long time now”. What are you, born this morning? If he can cheat on his wife, what makes you think he isn’t doing the same to you? You could be girl no. 4 for all you know.
You deserve to be the only one to someone truly single and available. Don’t assume or keep hope he will leave his wife eventually, IT DOESN’T HAPPEN! And you’re committing one of the most abominable sins to God – ADULTERY (Hebrews 13:4).
Why settle for something that makes you the ‘other woman’ only when you can be in a relationship where you’re the only one?
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This ends my series on this subject. Nothing like being in and holding on to something certain and clear to you, something as solid and stable as the truth and assurance we have in Christ Jesus.
How can you trust a man (or woman) claiming to have fallen for you while he is cheating on his wife at the same time? After he brought her to the altar and vowed to love her for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, till death do them part, he betrays her while she’s still alive, obviously, one whose words can’t be relied on.
Don’t fall for the immortal lie “I don’t love her anymore” or “We haven’t been together for a long time now”. What are you, born this morning? If he can cheat on his wife, what makes you think he isn’t doing the same to you? You could be girl no. 4 for all you know.
You deserve to be the only one to someone truly single and available. Don’t assume or keep hope he will leave his wife eventually, IT DOESN’T HAPPEN! And you’re committing one of the most abominable sins to God – ADULTERY (Hebrews 13:4).
Why settle for something that makes you the ‘other woman’ only when you can be in a relationship where you’re the only one?
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This ends my series on this subject. Nothing like being in and holding on to something certain and clear to you, something as solid and stable as the truth and assurance we have in Christ Jesus.
Comments
salamat ate thess for this series. ^_^
tama ka, dangerous nga ang mag-assume lalo na if feelings or relationship ang pinag-uusapan
there was this guy na new believer sa church namin. i asked for his number for the purpose na mag-build ng relationship for friendship sake and to encourage him to continuously involve himself sa church and ministry. yun lang talaga ang intensyon ko, as in! kaso mo, after some exchanges of text messages, nahulog ang loob ng lola mo sa kanya! ^_^ whahaha! worst of all, i assumed na ganun din sya sa akin. pero, di pala!
hayy, ayun, akala ko wla syang ka-ide-idea sa feelings ko pero obvious na pala ako..whehehe..(kakahiya)
ok na ako eh. i genuinely accepted the fact na wala syang attraction or gusto sa akin. may girlfriend na nga yun eh! but hindi na sya big deal sa akin.
ang big deal na lang sa akin ngayon eh, i can't help but think na isa siguro ako sa mga reasons kaya kung bakit di na siya umattend ulit sa church. parang 'i scared him away' because of my assumptions.
yun lang..hehe
kaya ngayon, ayaw ko na talagang maulit ang mistake na iyon. bka kasi may mwala pa ulit na guy sa church eh ^_^ sayang naman.
pray ko na lang din na ma-revive ang spiritual fire ng guy na 'yon.
nagsisisi talaga ako ^_^
thanks again ate thess!
mmmmmmmmmmuah!
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmp! (hugs ko)
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