Love in Waiting (Part III)
He wants you? But he loves you NOT! (for single women)
Oh how many women have been blackmailed by the words – “If you really love me, you’ll have sex with me.” Really, is there even respect in that phrase? Does he really think you’re brain dead?
Just because a guy wants you, it doesn’t mean he loves you. Men want all the women (gorgeous or not) if they can have them. When a guy sees legs, cleavages, shoulders, any inviting body part, they start getting excited and BELIEVE ME, it has nothing to do with love. Ask your brother! It’s all testosterone.
Yes, we want to attract, be looked at, it’s the reason why we put in so much effort to look good and smell good. We want to be wanted! BUT WE ALSO WANT TO BE LOVED, more than just that!
So if your boyfriend starts touching you in all the wrong places, tell him off! Demand respect because you deserve it. If he truly loves you AND respect you, he’ll understand and wait IF NOT, dump the idiot! If he threatens to break up because you won’t give him what he wants then we know what’s really important to him, not you, obviously.
Don’t be duped. He won’t die if you don’t sleep with him. What would you want with a guy who places self-gratification above your honor anyway? It feels so much better being broken up with because the guy discovered “YOU’RE NOT THAT KIND OF GIRL”.
Oh how many women have been blackmailed by the words – “If you really love me, you’ll have sex with me.” Really, is there even respect in that phrase? Does he really think you’re brain dead?
Just because a guy wants you, it doesn’t mean he loves you. Men want all the women (gorgeous or not) if they can have them. When a guy sees legs, cleavages, shoulders, any inviting body part, they start getting excited and BELIEVE ME, it has nothing to do with love. Ask your brother! It’s all testosterone.
Yes, we want to attract, be looked at, it’s the reason why we put in so much effort to look good and smell good. We want to be wanted! BUT WE ALSO WANT TO BE LOVED, more than just that!
So if your boyfriend starts touching you in all the wrong places, tell him off! Demand respect because you deserve it. If he truly loves you AND respect you, he’ll understand and wait IF NOT, dump the idiot! If he threatens to break up because you won’t give him what he wants then we know what’s really important to him, not you, obviously.
Don’t be duped. He won’t die if you don’t sleep with him. What would you want with a guy who places self-gratification above your honor anyway? It feels so much better being broken up with because the guy discovered “YOU’RE NOT THAT KIND OF GIRL”.
further readings:
Common Misconception about Love and Sex
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